3 reasons busy mums need Pilates: How to get back your core strength

By Kristy Moore

Pilates Instructor

How to get back your core strength

We are so spoilt for exercise choice at the moment with so many latest ‘fads’ and new- style fusion studios popping up all over the place so it’s easy to forget the time-tested training techniques, such as Pilates. There’s a reason why Pilates has stuck around…it works! Let’s take a look at exactly why Pilates should be part of your training regime as a busy mum.

Pilates is probably the most fundamental or ‘core’ style of training around, and has been, for the last 70 years. The founder, Joseph Pilates, said himself that he was way ahead of his time with his unique approach to fitness training and overall well-being. His idea behind Pilates (or Contrology as he called it) is the complete coordination of mind, body and spirit.

The simple thing about Pilates is that it encourages and teaches us how to move by using our muscles as they were intended, just like babies (and animals) do. So, why do we need to be taught and re-learn how to shutterstock_274750496_baby exerciseuse our muscles properly? Just like in the image below, if we move instinctively from birth, at what point do we lose this instinct and proper functioning and control of our body? Why don’t animals have these same issues of forgetting how to move properly?  You don’t see wildlife with postural issues!

There are many reasons why we have lost our natural instinct and ability. The way we have adapted to modern technology has contributed greatly and unfortunately (and realistically) we cannot change the fact that we are no longer cave people having to hunt and gather food. Let’s take a look at three different reasons for our loss of ability to function correctly, which then become the reasons we need Pilates!

3 reasons busy mums need Pilates

  1. Forcing our bodies to strengthen before they are ready.

‘Stretching and bending children’s arms and legs when they are not inclined to stretch or bend them, compelling children to stand up when they are not strong enough to support their own weight, forcing children to walk when they are not strong enough to control their physical movements.’  These are some of the reasons that Joseph Pilates attributes to ‘malformations in arms or feet, weak bodies and other things’. How often do you see people holding babies to ‘stand’ with the weight on their legs, trying to get them to strengthen? This shows the importance of allowing children to strengthen in their own time (which of course they will, everyone ends up walking) and not forcing them to do so before their small muscles are ready.

  1. Wearing shoes

The feet you walk on are the very foundation of your posture so therefore a healthy foot is fundamental to good posture. They need to be strong and stable while being flexible and mobile at the same time. The best way to develop this is to be barefoot. For most of us though, shoes are placed on our feet from the time we take our first baby steps (generally with thick, rubber soles). They lift our feet away from the ground and block the sensory nerves from receiving external stimuli. This then weakens the muscles that make up the arch of the foot, which will change the way you walk and run and undermine the development of the core muscles that make up your posture. As we no longer walk around barefoot all the time, we need to look at how we can minimise the effect our shoes have on us.  Basic changes we could all put into place relatively easily would be to:

  • Avoid putting young children in shoes when unnecessary
  • Start going barefoot as much as possible
  • Find minimalist shoes to wear (especially when exercising) and
  • Strengthen our core muscles (Pilates).
  1. Poor sitting…a lot to do with our use of technology!

Another quote from Joseph Pilates (remembering this was noted way back in 1945, a time when I would suggest we were still ‘moving’ a lot more than we do today!) suggesting yet another reason for our postural issues: ’Compelling children to sit in chairs for rest (impossible so far as our present day chairs are concerned) when they are not inclined to do so, preferring rather to ‘squat’ on the floor Turkish fashion’. The way we sit on chairs is not a natural position for us. Think of how children comfortably (and instinctively) squat, and with perfect form, when they’re tired or just to look at something on the ground. This is before they are then forced to sit for hours a day in school, then perhaps University, then most likely at work. Not to mention sitting when driving in cars, catching buses/trains. Then coming home and flopping on the lounge to ‘relax’. We all sit A LOT! Very simply, our sitting position switches off (or weakens) our glutes (our main power houses for walking, squatting etc.) and tightens our hip flexors (front of our hips) thus starting a chain of events which can lead to poor posture and most likely the cause of back, knee and hip pain/issues due to utilisation of incorrect muscles when standing and moving.

A day in our modern lives, often goes something like this: Drive or catch public transport to work, sit at a desk and hunch over a computer, texting, checking Facebook on a phone at lunch etc… until we arrive home and then ‘unwind’ by sitting in front of the TV (perhaps a 45 minute session of exercise somewhere in between, often involving more forward flexion (ab curls) or ‘pushing’ work (push ups, bench press)). All of these promote our body to round or ‘hunch’ forward or have some other negative effect on our posture and lack of movement. Think about how often you are doing one of the above things and how many hours of the day in total you spend doing them. Then think of how little time in comparison, you ARE doing corrective exercise (Pilates) to help counteract these.

The above points should then highlight and help us understand the NEED for exercises such as Pilates, which can help to teach us to move correctly again. Again, this will in turn result in perfect posture when sitting, standing and walking (and the NEED to be doing it every single day!). We don’t all have the time to do a full Pilates class every day but even ten minutes per day can be helpful. Focusing on the specific areas of your body that are weakest and learning (and practicing) the Pilates exercises for that issue will have an amazing impact on your posture and your body and mind.

As Joseph Pilates says, ‘Physical fitness is the prerequisite of happiness.’ J



Rose is a Fit Busy Mum of 3 fit kids. She aims to empower mums who are time poor. She acknowledges that mums are ‘busy’ but tries to inspire them to regain their fitness through simple everyday habits that she promotes through her book ‘The Fit Busy Mum: Seven habits for success’

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